Hostage to The Circumstances

I’m going to make a statement that might initially cause a strong reaction in you, but please hear me out. […]

His New Nickname

We get stuck in loops trying to figure out why our spouse (or any other significant other) does what they […]

A Time for Anger

By the time most couples seek help with their marriage, anger is a profound element of the relationship.  I’ve also […]

Rightfully Angry

By the time most couples seek help with their marriage, anger is a profound element of the relationship. I’ve also […]

Beyond Closed Doors

My wife walked out on me 3 years ago, just a few days before our 23rd anniversary.  She said she […]

Chemistry is Not Connection

When you jump into the deep end, by default you flail around and desperately try to get your head above […]

But She Made Me Do It

Part 4 of a series adapted from my presentation at the AACC 2018 Meganational Conference, a lecture given to counselors, […]

Denying the Reality of Spiritual Abuse

This is Part 3 of a series adapted from my presentation at the AACC 2018 Meganational Conference, a lecture given […]