Hostage to The Circumstances

I’m going to make a statement that might initially cause a strong reaction in you, but please hear me out. […]

A Time for Anger

By the time most couples seek help with their marriage, anger is a profound element of the relationship.  I’ve also […]

Beyond Closed Doors

My wife walked out on me 3 years ago, just a few days before our 23rd anniversary.  She said she […]

Chemistry is Not Connection

When you jump into the deep end, by default you flail around and desperately try to get your head above […]

But She Made Me Do It

Part 4 of a series adapted from my presentation at the AACC 2018 Meganational Conference, a lecture given to counselors, […]

The Marriage Idol

If your hope is in your broken marriage being restored -that is, you can’t see any joy or meaning in […]

Keep Walking

I talk a lot about personal responsibility, about how there is so much you can do to change where you […]

Where’d You Park?

If you are unwilling to evaluate where you are, you’re probably in the wrong place. Unwillingness shows pride, fear, and […]