A Time for Anger

By the time most couples seek help with their marriage, anger is a profound element of the relationship.  I’ve also […]

Rightfully Angry

By the time most couples seek help with their marriage, anger is a profound element of the relationship. I’ve also […]

Beyond Closed Doors

My wife walked out on me 3 years ago, just a few days before our 23rd anniversary.  She said she […]

Chemistry is Not Connection

When you jump into the deep end, by default you flail around and desperately try to get your head above […]

Denying the Reality of Spiritual Abuse

This is Part 3 of a series adapted from my presentation at the AACC 2018 Meganational Conference, a lecture given […]

The Marriage Idol

If your hope is in your broken marriage being restored -that is, you can’t see any joy or meaning in […]

Keep Walking

I talk a lot about personal responsibility, about how there is so much you can do to change where you […]

Why Would I?

The following is a common story I hear.  So common it bears writing into a blog post. The details vary a bit […]