His New Nickname

We get stuck in loops trying to figure out why our spouse (or any other significant other) does what they […]

The Marriage Idol

If your hope is in your broken marriage being restored -that is, you can’t see any joy or meaning in […]

Keep Walking

I talk a lot about personal responsibility, about how there is so much you can do to change where you […]

Intentionally Standing

I don’t feel any different than you.  Not more courageous. Not any wiser. Certainly not more intelligent.  Just a normal […]

Why Would I?

The following is a common story I hear.  So common it bears writing into a blog post. The details vary a bit […]

Changing the Undoing

One of my friends, who is struggling desperately in her marriage, was heavily on my mind yesterday morning.   She […]

How Big is God… really?

If you do not stand firm in your faith, you do not stand at all. (Is. 7:9) **I originally wrote this […]