Hostage to The Circumstances

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I’m going to make a statement that might initially cause a strong reaction in you, but please hear me out. […]

Beyond Closed Doors

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My wife walked out on me 3 years ago, just a few days before our 23rd anniversary.  She said she […]

But She Made Me Do It

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Part 4 of a series adapted from my presentation at the AACC 2018 Meganational Conference, a lecture given to counselors, […]

The Marriage Idol

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If your hope is in your broken marriage being restored -that is, you can’t see any joy or meaning in […]

Intentionally Standing

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I don’t feel any different than you.  Not more courageous. Not any wiser. Certainly not more intelligent.  Just a normal […]

Changing the Undoing

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One of my friends, who is struggling desperately in her marriage, was heavily on my mind yesterday morning.   She […]

The Shift

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If you regularly read my blog (which I’m sure is an impossibility since I haven’t regularly posted), then you’ve noticed […]